I grew up in a suburb, then went to college in a quiet rural area. But my university had around 17,000 undergraduate students, plus graduate students, faculty, and staff. It was a city unto itself. After college I moved to a city, then a different city for graduate school, then several more moves within cities. Which is why it feels so odd to be living in the suburbs again.
Five short days ago I moved to a suburb that’s a lot quieter and smaller than the one I grew up in. This will be a huge adjustment, but overall I think it will be good. Since this blog is about living with a chronic illness, here are a few ways I think it will be good for my health:
- This complex allows dogs and there are dogs everywhere. I’ve pet many in just these few short days, including my neighbor’s new puppy! Petting dogs always makes me feel better, no matter what. And soon I’ll have one of my own!
- Check out the view from my desk at the top of this post. It’s not as great as my old view, but from my window I can see so many trees! From my apartment I can take a walk along a path through woods, something I used to have to drive to do. This will do wonders for my emotional health.
- It’s so quiet here. I’ve been sleeping better than I thought was possible. When I’m awake, it’s peaceful and relaxing. It’s strange, and a huge adjustment, but I find it calming and lovely.
- No. More. Stairs. I’m on the first floor and there are no stairs to get into the building. This is amazing!
- Easy parking. I used to feel stressed out about finding a parking space. Then I would have to carry things from my car, sometimes several blocks, just to get to my building (before dealing with the stairs.) Now the tiny parking lot is by my front door, and I never have to park very far. Bringing in groceries today was so easy.
- Laundry is now in my unit. The last time I had that was when I lived with my parents. My guess is that laundry won’t be fatiguing anymore.
- No traffic. I have to do a lot more driving (I can no longer walk to things or take public transportation,) but it’s much less stressful.
- Less pollution. ‘nuf said.
- It’s a smaller apartment. There are downsides to that, and I’m not thrilled, but I also know that on the days I’m in too much pain to walk, having a smaller apartment will be super helpful.
In time, I’m sure I will find more ways this move will be beneficial to my health. In the meantime, I’m excited to enjoy these new benefits. Now excuse me while I go unpack some more boxes….
Your home looks great, I love it has easy access to outside. That will make toilet training easier when you get a dog. I just love the trees. I live next to a wood and it can help clear your head or ground you. I am so happy for you and send lots of good wishes your way for your new home. Hugs xx
Thanks Lorna! And yes, I’m sure I’ll be super glad to have easy access to the outdoors when I get my pooch 🙂
Smaller means less to clean. Smaller also means cozy. I think you’ll love your new digs even more the longer you’re there. I can hardly wait to find out what kind of dog you’ll get!
Thanks CM! I can’t wait to find out what kind of dog I’ll get either 🙂