5 reasons the next election scares me

January 9, 2012

I’m irritable and grumpy and really not in the mood to write a happy post.  But then, I’m tired of hearing myself complain.  So where does that leave me?

Avoidance.  That seems like a perfectly immature solution.  I’m going for it.

To avoid complaining about the health issues that are on my mind, instead I’ll list my top 5 (in no particular order) concerns going into the next presidential election.  After all, politics is always a good topic to vent about.

  1. Obama’s healthcare plan could be repealed.  I sure don’t agree with all of it, but it’s the best we have right now.  It worries me that some of our candidates believe that anyone who can’t afford healthcare should be left to suffer and even to die.  It worries me that they don’t see the need to outlaw preexisting condition exclusions.  It worries me that they think our current system works.  Just because it works for them, doesn’t it mean it works for the rest of us.
  2. Abortions could become illegal, or legal but almost impossible to get.  The laws in some states scare me.  To think that a woman must be counseled against an abortion before she can receive one, or that she must be forced to listen to the fetus’s heartbeat, is just downright scary.  A woman should not be forced to carry a baby against her will.  What kind of society would enforce that?  It’s especially heinous considering how difficult some people want to make it for women to receive contraception and Plan B-type medications.  Believe it or not, not every fertile woman wants to have a child.  Expanding these laws to work around Roe v. Wade would be unacceptable.
  3. Homophobia, biphobia, and transphobia could become legal.  Well, more than it already is.  What really angers me (besides the politicians railing against “the gays” who themselves turn out to be gay or bi) are the many politicians who say they “have many close friends who are gay” and they “have nothing against gays” but then denounce same sex couples as having “unnatural lifestyles” or something equally absurd.  Psst…. you really do have a problem with “the gays,” even though you still want their votes.
  4. Immigrants, both legal and illegal, could become scapegoats for every single problem in this country.  Well, even more than they already are.  Shocking as it may seem, immigrants did not cause the current/recent recession, immigrants are not preventing a rebound in employment numbers by stealing American jobs, and immigrants did not come to this country in order to scam our welfare system.  Yes, there is the occasional immoral immigrant, just like there is the occasional immoral U.S.-born citizen.  But overall, these are people who came to this country for a better life.  Why did your ancestors come here?  Unless your ancestors were Native Americans, your ancestors immigrated to this country at one point.  They may have come by choice or they may have come against their will, but they weren’t born here.  The vast majority of us are descended from immigrants.  Get over it.
  5. We’ll continue to see nothing but infighting, status quo, and bandaids.  I’m so sick and tired of see a group of rich white guys, with a few women and minorities thrown in for good measure, fighting for their side to win, even at the expense of the American people.  I’m fed up with seeing real solutions to real problems being watered down to the point of being made almost useless.  I’m aching to see something more than just incremental changes.  Where’s the real thing?  Let’s tear apart our broken systems and rebuild them to be better.  You know that whole “all [people] are created equal” clause?  I want to see our politicians act as if it’s really true.  I want to see our political system fixed so that there’s no longer an incentive for politicians to pander to rich people and large corporations.  I want to see a system that appears to at least have the potential to actually work.  I’m not seeing that right now.

 

For once, I want to vote for the best candidate, not for the least bad one. 

A few people have suggested that I run for office myself.  They weren’t suggesting a presidential run, of course, but something more like a state representative position.  I gave three good reasons for not doing it: (1) my health (2) lack of money (3) I’d want to speak my mind, and I honestly don’t think anyone can get elected by speaking their mind.  I really wish that wasn’t true.

This next election scares me.  I just don’t like the direction we’re moving in.  I hope that by some miracle, things improve.  Oh, that reminds me, I didn’t have room to get into my views on the separation of church and state and where that’s headed.  A future rant to look forward to….

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Better than what?

January 8, 2012

After 6 full days, I am finally over my cold.  Sure, I’m still coughing up phlegm, but aside from that I’m doing ok.  I’m finally better.

But that makes me wonder: better than what?

I’m not contagious.  But aside from that, what really distinguishes between the past few days and the several months before?  This week I was sniffling, coughing, and suffering from laryngitis, but that wasn’t the worst of it.  The worst was the fever and the run-down feeling.  But wait, I had those before too!

I was frustrated with this cold, wanting to leave the house.  But aside from being contagious, it was really no worse than a lot of what I feel regularly, and in one way it was a hell of a lot better: I knew it wouldn’t last.

I keep waiting to feel better.  I keep waiting to get my energy back, to feel ready to return to work, to make plans with friends that I won’t likely cancel, to be able to guarantee help to my family and friends when they need it…. to have my life.  So many people were worried about me while I was sick this week; I didn’t know how to explain to them that that was the easy part.  It’s returning to my “normal” life that’s hard, because that illness isn’t about to go away.

 

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Where’d my life go?

January 1, 2012

When did my life become so boring?

I was catching up with an old friend tonight and realized I had nothing to say.  It’s not as if I can’t hold a conversation; I read, I’m opinionated, I have the gift of gab.  But talking about my own life, there was nothing to say!  House?  Same place.  Job?  Boring.  Health?  Not discussing it with anyone but close friends, family, and you many anonymous readers.  Dating?  Barely, and no one interesting.  Big activities?  None (I don’t feel up to it.)  So what’s new?  Nothing worth discussing.

I hate that my health is running my life.  It was always there, always present, always a part of my life, but it was just a part.  Now it feels like the main attraction.  I need to get some balance back.  Today I emailed a friend about going out together with some friends of hers.  There are many single guys.  Maybe that could be a start.  A few decent dates could provide a break in the monotony.  And maybe the new job will come through.  That would be amazing.  So I’m trying.  I’m really trying.  But in the meantime, I feel like the most boring person at the party.

2012 better be a hell of a lot better than 2011!

 

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Good riddance 2011

December 31, 2011

I was going to write a great post for today, but then I fell asleep and that threw everything off.  So much for fabulous the little blue pills.  I fell asleep yesterday afternoon too.  Bah.

I’m determined to go out tonight so this will be short.  This was not a good year.  Actually, this year really sucked.  My romantic life was more pitiful than usual, my job was boring and stressful, I’m no longer on speaking terms with my sister, and my health nosedived.  That adds up to a lousy year.  Yes, there were some good things, but overall, I will be happy to see this year go.

So goodbye 2011.  I will hardly miss ye.  And hello 2012!  Let’s hope it’s a kick-ass year!  I wish you all a fantastic 2012!